Anyone who has struggled with their health can understand the sense of uncertainty, fear and vulnerability that arises. The awareness that one’s capabilities are not what they used to, or somehow different than others can be an overwhelming experience. Physical symptoms like chronic pain, fatigue, immobility, loss of bowel control, loss of speech and memory problems bring unique challenges. One’s sense of self can be threatened in the everyday experience of illness. – such as one’s identity as being independent. Certain illnesses, like cancer or heart disease, bring sudden and unexpected threats to mortality.

With chronic illness, there is an ongoing inner threat that never abates. With both acute and chronic conditions, individuals are challenged to manage their physical symptoms and the emotional reactions that accompany them. While the physical demands of an illness may or may not be seen by others, the emotional toll it carries can be invisible and down right exhausting. 

Whatever your health challenge, I can provide a space for you to share your experiences. I know from my own chronic health challenges that connecting with a supportive other fosters greater acceptance. It will help you to find your “inner warrior” and become more resilient. It will lighten the load, and help you get the most out of life. 

8 Remarkable Things About People With Chronic Illness

  1. The experience of feeling different gives people incredible insight and compassion into the pain of others. People with chronic illness can make great listeners and often see what others do not.
  2. They are challenged with finding fulfillment in each day, to see the gifts around them. Being chronically unwell helps people to enjoy the “little things” in life, like a comfortable bed or a hot cup of tea. Priorities shift from what society says people should have, to less materialistic endeavours like creativity, connection and self care.
  3. Enjoying the good days. When their symptoms are not as severe, they can really savour the moment. On the good days, they may have bursts of energy where they can accomplish tasks that were left undone. But they may pay for this the next day when the symptoms return, sometimes even worse than before.
  4. People with chronic illness show profound strength in managing their chronic physical pain and other debilitating symptoms. They have a remarkable ability to keep going, to endure. They are warriors.
  5. They have a unique perspective on life. They see the world differently than most because their lived experiences are often different than the norm.
  6. They are creative. Dealing with one’s unique limitations requires creativity and problem solving. They think outside the box to deal with their illness. They see solutions where others see dead ends.
  7. Despite looking good on the surface, they are working hard to manage their symptoms and live their best lives. They may not talk about their illness much with others, but inside they are often going through a lot.
  8. They must learn to love themselves, despite their physical limitations. This can be challenging in a world that values performance and constant productivity.